I live by the words " if it feels good,,, do it " and I will continue with that philosophy. In my porn and fantasies the guys are usually slim with little to no body hair, more toward the androgynous side, but really I just need to feel comfortable with someone. Ultimately looking for that someone to put that zing back into my sex life.
Looking for fun people open for exploring new friendships and more.
My marriage has recently taken a turn and my wife and I used to host swinger parties I'm not a flake.