We are most comfortable with people closer to our age group. A man with self worth, confident in every aspect of himself, chivalrous, well mannered, employed, hard working, secure within himself, knows where life's path is leading him, but most importantly, can appreciate a women such as myself I can rock a pair of jeans, always look good, no matter where I'm going, I always take pride in my appearance, but prefer being in that little black dress, nylons and high heels, showing off what God gave me and making any man I'm with, proud to have me on his arm. Something I am very pleased about, as I understand that certain spares can be difficult to chat effectively on.