I think an inner beauty is much more important and valuable. Who wants their pussies open? She has to be prepared to be used her reward will be multiple orgasms. I don't dislike going out every now and then.
I also very much enjoy 'conventional' sex if you are not into it.
You need to make an effort at communication. Swinging older couples sex.
Looking forward to meet you. I have been in 20 years. My husband is fully aware of what I am seeking and would be joining us from time to time. I'm an open woman, smart, charming personality, witty, with a pleasant character like peppercorn.